Mothers Day 2023 will be my first without my mom. Losing a mother is a significant loss that can leave you feeling lost and alone. The first Mother’s Day after your mom’s passing can be particularly difficult, as you’re forced to confront a holiday that’s typically filled with joy and celebration, without the one person who means the world to you.
Here are five tips for coping with grief if Mother’s Day 2023 is the first Mothers Day after your mom’s passing:
- Acknowledge your feelings: It’s normal to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, and even guilt. Allow yourself to feel these emotions and don’t try to suppress them. It’s essential to acknowledge your feelings and work through them in your own way.
- Plan ahead: If you know that Mother’s Day will be challenging, it’s helpful to plan ahead. You may want to spend the day with family or friends who understand what you’re going through, or you might choose to spend the day doing something your mom enjoyed. Whatever you choose, planning ahead can help you feel more in control of the day.
- Do something in memory of your mom: Whether it’s lighting a candle, visiting her favorite spot, or making her favorite meal, doing something to honor your mom’s memory can be a meaningful way to cope with the pain of her absence.
- Reach out for support: Don’t be afraid to lean on family and friends for support during this difficult time. If you’re struggling to cope, consider talking to a therapist or joining a support group. You don’t have to go through this alone.
- Take care of yourself: It’s essential to take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally during this challenging time. Make sure you’re getting enough rest, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.
Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to grieve, and everyone copes with loss differently. Be gentle with yourself, and don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re struggling on Mother’s Day 2023. Over time, the pain will lessen, and you’ll be able to cherish the memories of your mom without the overwhelming grief that comes with the first Mother’s Day after her passing.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Randy Cooper has been in marketing technology more than 35 years. He has a Bachelors of Science in Information Technology, with a focus on web development, from the University of Phoenix. He has a Masters in Business Administration, with a focus on digital marketing, from Liberty University. In 2009, Randy founded Buzz My Biz, a consulting company focused on giving enterprise-level marketing results to small and medium-sized businesses. When he isn’t pounding away on a keyboard, he enjoys watching the Atlanta⚾️Braves, hiking, and working in the yard.
